See what you get...

Here's an interesting social experiment for you. The next time you're leaving work, or the grocery store, or some random building, take a few minutes and stand just inside the door like you're waiting on a ride. Look every person that walks past you in the face- not with dagger eyes or a smirk, but a little smile. And see what you get.

Most people in this world want some type of human interaction, and of course they want POSITIVE interaction. I love to do nice things (even say Good Morning or Have A Nice Day) to people that I don't know. Responses are pretty note-worthy!

In this little experiment, you'll probably see that most people make some type of verbal communication with you first. But only because you opened your demeanor to accept it. Friendly gestures, no matter how small, are typically appreciated and reciprocated.

As I was doing this tonite after work (I actually was waiting for a ride from my husband), I got all types of responses. I work in a building with the 2-door system, so I was standing between the two, watching for my ride, and looking at each person that passed. I would give a small close-lipped smile, and they would respond in some manner in most cases.

There was the woman looking at the snow outside, who said, "Wow- ummm, I don't know. I just don't know.". Well, I don't know what you don't know, but I'm glad you know you don't know it.

Then there was the two young men who were deep in conversation, who glanced at me briefly before heading just OUTSIDE the doors to continue what they were discussing. One flashed me a half-sided smile, the other simply kept going, but both kept looking back as they were outside, no doubt thinking, "Women! They can't drive at all."

Most people, however, smiled and said, "Have a good evening", or some other short greeting.

I always find it interesting how people react when you initiate interaction in a friendly manner. Too many times in today's world, people seem to be jaded or hesitant in public when they are by themselves. But my contention is that I can hopefully change a bit of that (albeit a VERY tiny pin prick bit) by simply showing kindness first.

Try it- you might get something out of it. Or better yet- maybe someone else will.